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Household, identity, and belonging · Family Turn family, religion and healing, greetings into a more respectful, usable decision.
What you’ll be able to do Ask about household, identity, naming, and belonging without assuming that a community pattern describes a person. Compare the responses to this question and explain your choice: What keeps the learning useful instead of turning it into a stereotype? Document a next step for Household, identity, and belonging · Family: Use Family, Religion and Healing, Greetings as a hypothesis in one live plan; verify the relevant detail with the affected person or a named community partner, then record the change, owner, review date, and report-back. Family Kinship systems. Othermothers. Extended care. Who cares for the child may not match a nuclear English form.
Who is family Aunties, grandparents, clan and tiyospaye relationships, and people who are family without a blood-quantum worksheet — all of that is family. A form that only fits two legal parents in one household cannot see kin.
Ask who should be in the room. A scientist parent, a lawyer aunt, a grandmother who harvests rice, and someone who works for a tribally run program can be the same family. “Broken family” is what the English form says when the household is not nuclear.
ICWA and MIFPA The Indian Child Welfare Act and the Minnesota Indian Family Preservation Act exist because the state has a record of taking children. Placement preferences, inquiry (“is this child an Indian child?”), notice to the nation, and active efforts are law. Active efforts are documented work with the family’s people, culture, and values — not a box after a removal. Kin search is not optional courtesy.
Who belongs You do not decide who is Native. The nation does. Blood quantum is colonial technology. Enrollment versus community belonging is nation business. A lobby quiz is not inquiry.
Put family to work What you can change You control whether family is treated as a question to explore or a label placed on someone.
What to watch for Active efforts. Kin search is not flavor. A nuclear form is already a removal machine if it cannot see kin.
Your next step Use this evidence as a hypothesis in your next plan, then confirm the relevant detail with the person or the community partner you named.
Religion and Healing Traditional practice and Christianity both live here — often in the same family.
Missions and ceremony Catholic missions, Episcopal missions, boarding-school Christianity, and traditional ceremony are all Minnesota facts. The American Indian Religious Freedom Act (1978) is law. Ceremony is not a team-building event. Hmong txiv neeb is not a sweat lodge. Dakota lodge is not Anishinaabe lodge by default.
If they name traditional healing, follow their lead and the nation’s. A pastor, a priest, or a healer is the case plan when this family asked. Do not book a lodge as department programming. Do not photograph ceremony.
Boarding-school harm Spiritual harm from boarding schools is structure: language forbidden, ceremony punished, children taken. That harm sits in the same clinic as ordinary chronic disease. You can hold both. You do not interrogate a ceremony to complete a field.
A white convert to a lodge is not a citizen of a nation. A Dakota person who is Catholic is still Dakota. Mixing those facts is how the meeting goes wrong.
Put religion and healing to work What you can change You control whether religion and healing is treated as a question to explore or a label placed on someone.
What to watch for If they name traditional healing, follow their lead and the nation’s. Do not book a lodge as DHS programming.
Your next step Use this evidence as a hypothesis in your next plan, then confirm the relevant detail with the person or the community partner you named.
Greetings Follow this room. Handshake is common in many rooms. A protocol invented from a training slide is not a greeting. Do not force a hand. A word you learned is not an icebreaker.
Elders and titles Elders first. Listen longer than the form wants. Titles if they use them. Ask how to say a name.
You are a guest in nation space even when the meeting is in a county building. The Black nod is African American intelligence. As-salāmu ʿalaykum is Somali and Muslim intelligence. Importing another community’s greeting is a mash.
Silence Silence can be thought, not refusal. Directness is not rudeness. Filling every pause because Minnesota Nice is uncomfortable is not listening.
Put greetings to work What you can change You control whether greetings is treated as a question to explore or a label placed on someone.
What to watch for Follow this room. Do not force a hand. Do not use a word you learned as an icebreaker.
Your next step Use this evidence as a hypothesis in your next plan, then confirm the relevant detail with the person or the community partner you named.
Practical cards Family
Real example: Kinship systems. Othermothers. Extended care. Who cares for the child may not match a nuclear English form. Who is family Aunties, grandparents, clan and tiyospaye relationships, and people who are family wi…
Leader action: Active efforts. Kin search is not flavor. A nuclear form is already a removal machine if it cannot see kin.
Religion and Healing
Real example: Traditional practice and Christianity both live here — often in the same family. Missions and ceremony Catholic missions, Episcopal missions, boarding-school Christianity, and traditional ceremony are all Mi…
Leader action: If they name traditional healing, follow their lead and the nation’s. Do not book a lodge as DHS programming.
Greetings
Real example: Follow this room. Handshake is common in many rooms. A protocol invented from a training slide is not a greeting. Do not force a hand. A word you learned is not an icebreaker. Elders and titles Elders first.…
Leader action: Follow this room. Do not force a hand. Do not use a word you learned as an icebreaker.
I do not need a cultural performance from a professional. I need the process to make room for my name, my people, my questions, and the way I actually need to participate.
Composite public perspective — illustrative · Eleven Tribal Nations of Minnesota · Household, identity, and belonging Carry this forward Family, Religion and Healing, Greetings provide context to test, not a label to assign.
The person, household, Nation, or named community partner remains the authority on what fits.
Follow this room. Do not force a hand. Do not use a word you learned as an icebreaker.
Completion is shown by a scenario decision, review of a practical artifact, and a saved one-minute commitment.
Use Family, Religion and Healing, Greetings as a hypothesis in one live plan; verify the relevant detail with the affected person or a named community partner, then record the change, owner, review date, and report-back.
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